Dating and Social Events Calendar

Singles Events Calendar

Across the Room is a Strictly Singles Organisation.

All the members attending our events must be single and unattached!

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Friday 30th May 2025 7.30 pm
The Singles Summertime Ball
The Singles Summertime Ball
Stock Brook Manor
Essex
£67.95
Event capacity 200
Tickets remaining 8

PRIVATE BALLROOM

Welcome to Stock Brook Manor Country Club, The Premier Singles Black Tie Ball in Essex! Enjoy luxury at this stunning venue, as soon as this event hits our website it sell out.

There is always over 200 single members present, excellent cuisine, quality wines, spacious dance floor and new single company! An overwhelming feeling of excitement fills the air, attractive members all in high spirits and our DJ who keeps the dance floor buzzing.

This is one of our flagship singles events - if you have not experienced it before, come and join us meet fun, friendly members and maybe find romance!

We will meet you on arrival

Eleanor will meet you on arrival in the ballroom, introducing you to new and existing members – so don’t worry about coming alone. Two table moves for the gentlemen throughout dinner keeping the conversation flowing.

This is set to be a fantastic event so an early booking is highly recommended.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 1.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long Evening dress for the ladies

Queens Park Avenue
Stock
Nr. Billericay
Billericay
Essex
CM12 0SP

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Sunday 22nd June 2025 12.00 pm
Sizzling Sunday Lunch
Sizzling Sunday Lunch
Hanbury Manor
Hertfordshire
 
Event capacity 20
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

Hanbury Manor - A Stately Jacobean Country House

With its fragrant walled gardens, stately Jacobean Country House and 200 acres of Hertfordshire parkland, the historic Hanbury Manor is sure to sell out!  

Sunday lunches create the perfect relaxed atmosphere in which you can meet like minded people and wile away the afternoon whilst meeting new and exciting new friends.  What could be more perfect?  So join us this Sunday and your luck may change for the better.  

Enjoy a traditional Sunday lunch - includes wine.

Reception: 12.00 pm
Dinner: 1.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Smart

Hanbury Drive
Ware
Hertfordshire
SG12 0SD

 

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Friday 18th July 2025 6.45 pm
Summertime Singles Dinner Dance
Summertime Singles Dinner Dance
The Bull Hotel
Suffolk
£63.95
Event capacity 120
Tickets remaining 12

The Bull is a very popular venue with our members and one of our regular venues, always a sell-out!

We return to this historic Hotel in Long Melford, where you will meet with members who travel from far and wide to attend this exceptional Singles night out!

Excellent cuisine, fine wines plus the magical atmosphere as  you enter this unique hotel make for a very special evening. If you would like to stay overnight, they have good room rates so why not make a weekend break - Long Melford is a beautiful town with Lavenham nearby too.  There is also additional accommodation very close by.

Don't forget to book early, The Bull is one of our favourite venues, so get it in your diary now!  Fantastic value for such an exclusive event.

Quality Wine included.

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Reception: 6.45 pm
Dinner: 7.15 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

Hall Street
Long Melford
Sudbury
Suffolk
CO10 9JG

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Thursday 14th August 2025 7.00 pm
Intimate Singles Dinner
Intimate Singles Dinner
The Blue Strawberry
Essex
£58.95
Event capacity 30
Tickets remaining 22

Single? then it is time to act and make the change!  Come out this evening and allow us to introduce you to attractive singles of the opposite sex.  The Blue Strawberry in Essex serves the freshest, finest food set in lovely surroundings.  

Eleanor and Neville will meet you on arrival – Two moves for the Gents to keep the table buzzing!

Fab venue, great food & attractive new company.

Missed out on this great event? Don't worry, we return to The Blue Strawberry regularly so keep an eye on our calendar

We also have fantastic events in other counties, not too far away.  Our Matchmaker Dinners are strictly SINGLES ONLY - no couples - but you could meet someone on the night!

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 7.30 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Smart

The Street
Hatfield Peverel
Chelmsford
Essex
CM3 2DW

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Wednesday 20th August 2025 7.30 pm
Singles Spanish Night
Singles Spanish Night
Doves Barn
Suffolk
£48.00
Event capacity 30
Tickets remaining 0 Fully Booked

Our Strictly Singles Spanish Event!

Sizzling Suffolk. Join us for our Spanish night with our resident Spanish Chef, Luis Miguel. You will be greeted with a glass of chilled wine or a Sangria and a variety of nibbles. Then chill out with Eleanor & Neville, mix and mingle, with an equal number of interesting, attractive singles.

You may find love, romance or make new friends, but one thing is for sure you will have a great value night out. Enjoy a delicious three course meal with unlimited wine. Great company, music and festivity awaits at this idyllic 16th century Barn in Sensational Suffolk.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Casual

Stowmarket Road
Badley
Ipswich
Suffolk
IP6 8RJ

 

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Friday 26th September 2025 7.30 pm
Singles Dine & Dance
Singles Dine & Dance
The Brome Grange Hotel
Norfolk
£64.95
Event capacity 140
Tickets remaining 137

NEW EVENT!

By popular demand we return to the Brome Grange Hotel which is perfectly located on the A140 between Norfolk and Suffolk, also perfect for members who live further afield as you able to book a room. Bedrooms are reasonably priced.

Dine and dance and enjoy a three delicious three course meal with wine in the fabulous surroundings of the Brome Grange Hotel. 

Excellent cuisine and stimulating company, two table moves for the gentlemen to keep the conversation buzzing, everything about this fabulous evening is right for you to meet that special someone.  Just glance Across the Room and see whose gaze you might encounter!

Call NOW to book your place - 01449 722800 / 07771 884429

Set on the main A140 Norwich Road, this venue is easy to reach from Essex, Norfolk or Suffolk.

Overnight accommodation is available on a first come, first served basis - please contact the hotel for details and room reservation
Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

A140
Norfolk
IP23 8AP

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One to One Personal Introductions
One to One Personal Introductions

Personal One 2 One Introductions in Suffolk

Would you like to find out more information regarding our successful One2One Personal Introduction service?   With various membership options available, there is something for everyone.   Please call the office for a friendly chat and to request a free, no obligation information pack.  Allow Across the Room to Fast Track you to love and romance.

Our Social Events and Dating Agency Service is very active in the Suffolk area. Many single people have met their match through this Personal Introduction Service.

Suffolk is one of our busiest areas and Across the Room holds many fabulous Singles Events in Suffolk! Single people in Suffolk enjoy dining at five star hotels with many other like-minded single members!


Saturday 18th October 2025 7.30 pm
Singles Sapphire Black Tie Ball
Singles Sapphire Black Tie Ball
The Brickendon Grange Country Club
Hertfordshire
£65.95
Event capacity 140
Tickets remaining 39

NEW EVENT!

Overnight stay - Call us for a list of nearby hotels.

Meet your match tonight at our Strictly Singles Ball!

Brickendon Grange offers a Private Suite, excellent cuisine and a congenial welcoming atmosphere.

We will personally meet you on arrival and introduce you to other like minded singles to mix and mingle and keep the conversation flowing.

Take your seat for an exquisite 3 course meal with fine wine whilst enjoying stimulating conversation.  Tables are age banded to ensure members are amongst singles within their age group.

Table moves for the gentlemen between courses ensure the evening is interesting and exciting throughout.

Our dance card offers the perfect ice breaker and gets everyone on the dance floor, our wonderful DJ knows exactly what to play to keep the dancing in full swing until midnight.

This event will sell out quickly so please book early to avoid disappointment.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long dress for the ladies.

Pembridge Lane
Brickendon Green
Hertford
Hertfordshire
SG13 8PD

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Friday 7th November 2025 7.00 pm
Sparkling Singles Dine & Dance
Sparkling Singles Dine & Dance
The Bull Hotel
Suffolk
£63.95
Event capacity 120
Tickets remaining 119

By popular demand we return to the The Bull in Long Melford. We are sure that there is something magical about this beautiful historic hotel. Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you in the front lounge bar for pre dinner drinks where you can acquaint yourself with other members of Across the Room.

Dinner will be served in the beamed restaurant with it s very own centrally located dance floor. Dance until midnight whilst taking advantage of the comfortable lounges for that intimate tête à tête! This event is always a winner so book early to avoid disappointment.

If you would like to find out if Across the Room is for you, please call the office on 01449 722800 / 723191 - There is no obligation.

Reception: 7.00 pm
Dinner: 7.30 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Suit or Jacket & Tie for the gents, Long or short dress for the ladies

Hall Street
Long Melford
Sudbury
Suffolk
CO10 9JG

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Thursday 27th November 2025 7.15 pm
Singles MAtchmaker Dinner
Singles MAtchmaker Dinner
The Four Horseshoes
Suffolk
£58.95
Event capacity 30
Tickets remaining 24

By popular demand! We return to the Four Horseshoes for our Strictly Singles Matchmaker Dinner.

The Four Horseshoes is one of our favourite venues, nestling in the heart of Suffolk countryside a short distance off the Norwich road.

The food is excellent and the company is stimulating, we meet you at the door and introduce you to new and existing members. You will meet new people and make new friends, perhaps even meeting someone special. There is plenty of time to mix and mingle before and after the three course meal, during which there are moves for the gentlemen after each course.

Eleanor and her hostesses will meet you on arrival, so no need to worry if you are coming on your own.

Why not join us and experience the magic of the venue and the warmth of the company. Book early to avoid disappointment.

This is just one of our many singles events in Suffolk.  Do have a look round our websites for more information on singles events and our dating agency in Suffolk.  Best still, call now for a friendly chat and more information on 01449 722800 - no obligation.

Reception: 7.15 pm
Dinner: 5.45 pm
Carriages: 12.00 am
Dress Code: Smart

Wickham Road
Thornham Magna
Eye
Suffolk
IP23 8HD

 

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Tuesday 30th December 2025 7.30 pm
Pre New Year Singles Black Tie Ball
Pre New Year Singles Black Tie Ball
Stock Brook Manor
Essex
£68.95
Event capacity 200
Tickets remaining 93

We are incredibly excited to announce our return to Stock Brook Manor for our pre New Years’ Eve Singles Extravaganza!

This Black Tie Ball will be a thrilling event to see in 2026. This event could change your life, as the clock strikes midnight, whose gaze will catch your eye Across the Room.

This will be an exhilarating experience; the atmosphere will be electric, the company will be stimulating and the food will be delicious.

Eleanor will meet you on arrival, introducing you to new and existing members - so don’t worry about coming alone. Two table moves for the gentlemen throughout dinner keeping the conversation flowing. This is set to be a fantastic event so an early booking is highly recommended.

Reception: 7.30 pm
Dinner: 8.00 pm
Carriages: 1.00 am
Dress Code: Black Tie for the Gents, Long Evening dress for the ladies

Queens Park Avenue
Stock
Nr. Billericay
Billericay
Essex
CM12 0SP

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